No Way In – Keep Out!

No, please, I don’t want to hear it!


Why is it that once you make a decision to become sealed and proofed against negativity, that so many people choose to have a good old negative rant right in front of you? What makes it so attractive? It’s one thing to share your troubles and difficulties with a friend,   ‘ .. a problem shared is a problem halved…etc’,  but to choose to speak negatively about ourselves, the weather, the television schedule, the neighbours, the state of the nation, the bankers, the supermarkets, the children, the boss, the state of our finances, the adult siblings, the many physical ailments, the harshness of life in general and so on and so on; this is quite another thing entirely. If we knew how damaging this was, would we change our habits? I want to cultivate habits that serve me positively. How does negative talk serve you?th2LLV3GEC.jpg

It is draining, it is cyclical and stationary and repetitive. It paints a dreary window of life that is not uplifting to anyone. It also steals your joy. Why would you allow anything or anyone to steal your joy? I guard it with my life! When I hear the negativity rant building 1,2,3 I run away saying ‘No! Please! I don’t want to hear it!

Growing up with a number of health challenges, I have chosen to be positive and to view life through the glass of positivity. Sure, it’s not always easy, but it is a choice and it is far better than being negative.

20160227_021116000_iOSNow that I am an entrepreneur, I want to work with other people who have a positive outlook. There is a great energy created when positive minds work together with a common goal or purpose. My joy is safe and protected.

So, why not take another look at that negative self-talk.

How does it serve you? How does it make you feel?

Contact Tessa at to find out more #workfromhome  #networkmarketing



Author: tessafyffe

Hi I'm Tessa Fyffe. I’m on a mission to #radiatelightandlove to the world! I Help Professionals, Who've Lost Their Passion For Their Careers, To Create Freedom, So They Can Design The Life They Choose. I share videos in support of my mission, to help other professionals like me. I love laughter, bringing the joy, rebounding on my Aeropilates machine, Meditation and just enjoying everyday life. I enjoy reading personal development books, from spiritual enlightenment to skilling-up as an online marketer. I love travelling and discovering new places and friends around the world. I also love writing and I’m taking baby steps towards crafting my book. Hooray! CONNECT with me more on my Blog Facebook: Instagram: YouTube: Email: See you on my next video!

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